You are blessed if you are forgiven. You cannot complete the self if you have garbage out there that is not resolve, you must learn to forgive first yourself, and then everybody and anybody who has wronged you. You cannot walk away from anything unless you forgive, and then you can be the best you that you can be.
Forgiveness is not for the one you forgive, but it is for you. Now you must heal the bruised child in you must rejuvenate to the state of its original inception, believe that this child is precious, and that this child is worthy of being loved. Now in other word, learn to truly love yourself as much as neighbours no more no less than neighbours does.