Now any hang-ups that you may have you eliminate. You must not allow petty grouping to prevent you from becoming you. If you have to change to be a member and conform to their mode of operation, and you loose any part of you, then you must not allow them to change you. You are not to be a carbon copy of them. This is one of these walls that must come down. You cannot be you by walking in the footsteps of another person.
Trust the Universal Spirit to help you. All of your walls that you have set up for yourself must be torn down. Phobias that you seem to coddle must be eradicated. If you fear meeting new people, this must go. Now if you, form a cliques, this is being exclusive and makes you in essence superior at least you think, and this prevents you from being totally you.